Enthalpy does not care how you got there
Some reactions cannot be run cleanly in a calorimeter — you cannot burn carbon and get pure carbon monoxide, and nobody makes acetylene from graphite by asking nicely. Hess's law gets the number anyway, and it rests on one fact: enthalpy is a state function. It depends only on where you start and where you finish, never on the route between. Climb a hill by the path or the stairs; the altitude gained is identical.
So route the target reaction through steps you DO have: . Here is the enthalpy change of the target reaction in kJ/mol, and , , are the enthalpy changes of the routed steps in the same unit — the NUMBER subscript is a step label, first, second, third, nothing more. Two manipulations are legal, and each has a consequence you must apply to the number as well as the equation. Reverse a step and its flips sign — you are paying back what it paid out. Multiply a step by k and its multiplies by k too, because enthalpy is extensive: twice the reaction, twice the energy. Then add. The check that catches almost every slip: every species not in the target must appear on both sides of your stack and cancel. If something is left over, a step is pointing the wrong way.